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How Not to Let Having Kids Ruin Your Sex Life

How tiredness, distraction, lack of time and the mental load affect sex lives, and Karen describes the ‘storm’ that children often bring to a relationship. Plus advice and practical ways to maintain (or bring back) sexual connection, particularly when there is no time.

Getting pregnant at home without penis in vagina sex

Do you want to get pregnant but the practicalities are getting the way? Worry not! Here is your guide to doing it without penis in vagina sex.

In bed with Gay To Ze Podcast

Does having children have to mean the death of your sex life?! Lotte, Stu and Karen discuss the nuances involved with having intimate moments with yourself or a partner when you are an LGBTQ+ parent.

Watch Dr Karen Gurney’s second Tedx talk

Why are women’s orgasms incorrectly framed as trickier than men’s? What impact does this have on who’s pleasure is prioritised in sex? Find out how the orgasm gap is maintained, and what we can all do to close it.

Why faking orgasms is doing you a disservice

And the secret sauce to a good sex life in the long term. Listen to Dr Karen Gurney speaking to Dr Hazel Wallace on her podcast The Food Medic.

Free Resources to Improve Your Sex Life

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Exercise: Understanding your motivations for sex and why it matters

A task to complete alone to increase self-understanding around sexual motivations and their effects

Exercise: Understanding your Conditions for Good Sex

A task to complete alone or with a partner, to increase self-understanding and build the foundations of good sex.

How To Have The Conversation To Get The Sex Life You Want

‘Relationships are never static, sex lives are never static but always moving in some kind of trajectory…’

Your Sex Life Reset Exercise

Take 10 minutes to take stock of how your sex life is going, where you want it to go, and how to get there.

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Is it normal? Mythbusting for people with penises (part one)

Not being able to orgasm through penetrative sex, having a small penis and losing confidence in your erections- common issues we see in the therapy room. What is normal and when to seek help.

Is it normal? Mythbusting for people with penises (part two)

Coming too soon, taking longer to get aroused as you get older, not feeling up for it all the time- common issues we see in the therapy room. What is normal and when should you seek help?

Getting pregnant at home without penis in vagina sex

Do you want to get pregnant but the practicalities are getting the way? Worry not! Here is your guide to doing it without penis in vagina sex.

If your Sex Life Still isn’t Back on Track After Lockdown, Try Scheduling It In

The ipaper quoting from the Mind The Gap: the truth about desire and how to future proof your sex life, as well as the wonderful Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel.

Lockdown: The Great British Sex Drought

We spoke with Lynn Enright at Grazia magazine about why those living with a partner are in an ‘unsexy no-man’s land of nothingness’ plus the huge potential for explosive connections once lockdown is over!

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How Not to Let Having Kids Ruin Your Sex Life

How tiredness, distraction, lack of time and the mental load affect sex lives, and Karen describes the ‘storm’ that children often bring to a relationship. Plus advice and practical ways to maintain (or bring back) sexual connection, particularly when there is no time.

Vulga Drawings Podcast

Feminist cartoonist and writer Lily O’Farrell asks ‘what are we learning about pleasure from the internet?’ And what impact does this have on the Orgasm Gap? We joined, sex educator Reed Amber, sexfluencer Scotty Unfamous and Tasha Mansley from SplitBananaaa to chat about it.

One Thing. Why you never fancy spontaneous sex

What is Dr Karen Gurney’s One Thing to share with all the parents? Don’t worry if they never feel like sex out of the blue.

Why don’t you want sex? Dirty Mother Pukka Quickie

The big issue is: how do you stop griping and start fancying someone who you’ve seen on the toilet, in birth and snoring in bed with you? Listen in and, well, hop on.

In bed with Gay To Ze Podcast

Does having children have to mean the death of your sex life?! Lotte, Stu and Karen discuss the nuances involved with having intimate moments with yourself or a partner when you are an LGBTQ+ parent.

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How Much Sex is Normal?

It makes us feel good and costs us nothing. So why aren’t we having more of it? We spoke to Sharon Walker at Vogue magazine as she investigates the decline in sex

Sex, Lives & Desire

Having a good sex life that lasts the distance of time is one of the holy grails of popular culture.

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