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Watch Dr Karen Gurney’s second Tedx talk

Why are women’s orgasms incorrectly framed as trickier than men’s? What impact does this have on who’s pleasure is prioritised in sex? Find out how the orgasm gap is maintained, and what we can all do to close it.

Why faking orgasms is doing you a disservice

And the secret sauce to a good sex life in the long term. Listen to Dr Karen Gurney speaking to Dr Hazel Wallace on her podcast The Food Medic.

Is your libido on lockdown?

Have you been at it like rabbits in Lockdown 3 or have you found sex is the last thing on your mind? Tune into the latest Hotbed Collective Podcast to hear Dr Karen Gurney offer her top tips on reviving a long lost libido.

Lockdown: The Great British Sex Drought

We spoke with Lynn Enright at Grazia magazine about why those living with a partner are in an ‘unsexy no-man’s land of nothingness’ plus the huge potential for explosive connections once lockdown is over!

Scheduling Sex, is it a Good Idea?

Dr Karen Gurney talks to Hannah about the ‘three times a week’ myth, how we have no actual measurement for desire, and what good sex actually is.

Free Resources to Improve Your Sex Life

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Exercise: Understanding your motivations for sex and why it matters

A task to complete alone to increase self-understanding around sexual motivations and their effects

Exercise: Understanding your Conditions for Good Sex

A task to complete alone or with a partner, to increase self-understanding and build the foundations of good sex.

How To Have The Conversation To Get The Sex Life You Want

‘Relationships are never static, sex lives are never static but always moving in some kind of trajectory…’

Your Sex Life Reset Exercise

Take 10 minutes to take stock of how your sex life is going, where you want it to go, and how to get there.

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If your Sex Life Still isn’t Back on Track After Lockdown, Try Scheduling It In

The ipaper quoting from the Mind The Gap: the truth about desire and how to future proof your sex life, as well as the wonderful Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel.

Lockdown: The Great British Sex Drought

We spoke with Lynn Enright at Grazia magazine about why those living with a partner are in an ‘unsexy no-man’s land of nothingness’ plus the huge potential for explosive connections once lockdown is over!

Top 20 LGBTQ+ Micro Influencers To Follow and Support in 2020

We are so proud of Dr Karen Gurney for being mentioned in this list alongside others who have excellent social media accounts with top resources . Go check them out!

Lockdown Lovin’

We offer The Midulthood three ways to help want to get on top of each other when living under each other’s feet.

How Much Sex is Normal?

It makes us feel good and costs us nothing. So why aren’t we having more of it? We spoke to Sharon Walker at Vogue magazine as she investigates the decline in sex

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Watch Dr Karen Gurney’s second Tedx talk

Why are women’s orgasms incorrectly framed as trickier than men’s? What impact does this have on who’s pleasure is prioritised in sex? Find out how the orgasm gap is maintained, and what we can all do to close it.

Why faking orgasms is doing you a disservice

And the secret sauce to a good sex life in the long term. Listen to Dr Karen Gurney speaking to Dr Hazel Wallace on her podcast The Food Medic.

Sex, Desire and Bridging the Orgasm Gap

People often think about sex as something you do with your body. And of course, it is. But it is more than that. Listen to discover how it’s something that connects you with your well being, your gender, with relationships, society, and culture.

Can Jealousy Ever be a Good Thing?

Dr Karen Gurney joins Alan Cumming and Christopher Sweeney for a fascinating chat about cohabitation, doing the dirty and everything in between.

Are We Using Unrealistic Standards to Judge Ourselves in Bed?

Tune into Clemmie Telford’s podcast But Why? to hear Dr Karen Gurney offer expert insight and challenge us to redefine even what we mean by ‘sex’.

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What Should we Expect from Desire?

We talked to Psychosexual Therapist Kate Moyle how desire changes across relationships and how what we think we know about it may actually hinder us in our sex lives.

Why faking orgasms is doing you a disservice

And the secret sauce to a good sex life in the long term. Listen to Dr Karen Gurney speaking to Dr Hazel Wallace on her podcast The Food Medic.

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